My how times have changed. In my day, slut shaming was still a "thing". The perpetrators and victims were all girls. The boys were just added teasing backdrop. It started in middle school and intensified in the earlier years of high school. If you got a reputation as being "easy", the other girls would fall on you like a pack of wolves. I never fell victim to it myself, being a surprisingly good girl in school, but I saw it happening to others. I've always wondered about the psychology of it.
There has been a bit of a campaign against it, which I applaud. For example, I saw this "anti slut shaming" ad on twitter a while back.
The caption says "don't", but, as a friend put it, the image looks like an instructional for girls who want to please!
But what triggered my post was a TikTok video I saw on twitter. It's a series of girls sharing publicly a slutty thing they did, and rather than being shamed for it by the other girls, being applauded for it.
This first one says "I got expelled from my old school for fucking my teacher."
This next one says, "I hooked up with my Uber driver while my boyfriend was passed out in the back seat."
This one says, "I fucked my ex's best friend and he still doesn't know."
This one, one of the naughtiest (!), says "the school thinks my Sugar Dad is my real Dad because he signs me out every week."
This one, perhaps the most innocent (?), says "I had a crush on my teacher so I started dating his son so I could come over."
Yay! And no judgment from her friends for not being quite as slutty as the others, she gets vigorous applause anyways. I LOVE it. Girls supporting girls.
Here is the video, I'll discuss after you get a chance to watch.
This is so bold of them! And so healthy and anti-slut-shaming for young girls. It illustrates why pretty girls are Queens who deserve to rule all you boys out there, but in a strange dualistic fashion also desperately need a good old-fashioned spanking! Princess or brat?
It certainly engenders those two simultaneous feelings in me. Both if I were one of the girls in question, or if I were the parental figure.
Ok, slut shaming is bad, but that, together with school and parental authority, did provide a little check and balance on girls' out-of-control hormonal sexuality. With no checks and balances, is any boy safe???
Imagine if that TikTok was discovered by school or parents? I can imagine!
Would anybody say it was not deserved?
If I had a daughter who appeared on that TikTok, I wouldn't know whether to kiss her or spank her! Though I'm pretty sure her father would know what to do...
And afterwards,
I doubt it would cure her though. If it was me it would have just egged me on.
Where or where have traditional values gone?
A girl who acted like a trollop back then would have had her rear end reddened with the hairbrush, have had her panties pinned to the mantle, and would have been showing off her red bum for any neighbourhood woman who cared to stop by for tea. The neighbours would have known for certain that any signs of incipient sluttery was dealt with harshly in that household!
Her father also would have taken a very dim view on her behaviour, and she would have expected a week's worth of panties down, across the knee, discipline.
She must be taught that the world is not her oyster, and while she has great power over some boys and men, certain other men of responsibility have great power over her, and will not hesitate to use it in the manner the father above demonstrates.
Now I ask you, how else to keep a hormonal girl in check?
So tell me in the comments, what are your thoughts? Princess? Brat? Or both?
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